My 5 criteria in a guy

I celebrated my friend’s birthday which was plan by her boyfriend. She was surprised, didn’t expect my presence because I lived quite far from them and the surprise gathering start at 9pm. I had fun there. We play some cards game in which who ever lose each round got eliminated and have to drink a drink that we mix with variety of soda like coke, lemon tea, juice, Jasmine tea (which taste funny as if drinking a perfume) The birthday girl won in the end beating her own boyfriend. There were eight of us; three girls and five guys and we were all friends.

Later on after the game, the guys went out to have a smoking break while me, the birthday girl and her boyfriend stayed inside and just discuss random things but mostly about job and personal life. I made a joke with the two of them by saying that if both of them got engage and I’m still single, I want them to find me a boyfriend. The next thing I knew the boyfriend calls the guys outside to come in one-by-one for an ‘interview’. I thought ‘what the heck, just fooling around. So what’s the harm’…

All the four guys play along and answer their five top criteria they look for in a potential partner. Once the interview over, I thought that’s the end of it. However, my friend told them that the whole entire exercise was for me, that they are playing match-making for me. I was so embarrassed. I try to deny but I just can’t make them stop teasing me. In the end I play along as the ‘couple’ reads the criteria out loud and decide which one is suitable for me. At the end of it, they all gang-up on me to make me reveals my five top criteria I’m looking for in a guy and they are:

1) Penyembayang/beriman
2) Funny or good sense of humor
3) Responsible/reliable
4) Friendly
5) (can’t remember what the last criteria)

Despite the teasing and the embarrassment I had to endure, I admit that I had fun. I realized that I don’t mind that the guys know my secret desire in a man. Most importantly, I have a crush on one of the guy present there. And he knows for sure now that I’m single, available and looking for someone. I only hope that he’s interested in me as well. But if not, then I guess I have to continue looking. Wish me luck!